Are We Becoming A Nation Of Nasties?



Whilst channel hopping with the TV remote the other night - as we all do when we haven't got anything better to watch - I came across what I thought appeared to be a rather entertaining quiz-combined-adventure programme. I happily watched while eating my Marmite and crisp sandwich (bizarre I know, but you should give it a try some time before you knock it - it really does taste delicious) as the contestants went through their endurance tests and answered a few questions. However, I nearly choked on a bit of Marmite-soaked cheese & onion crisp when it came to the moment in the programme when the contestants had to nominate each other out of the game. Some of the answers the contestants gave would have made Anne Robinson look like a mild-mannered Blue Peter presenter (if that's possible). I know I should have swapped channels there and then, but I was transfixed by the contestants' vicious banter about each other. I felt that I was no better than the spectators you see in films who eagerly await the gruesome hanging of the poor wretched victim (who you know really is innocent in the movie).

After the programme had ended, it left me with a very bitter taste in my mouth (and no it wasn't the Marmite); I honestly felt quite depressed. Sadly, this programme and the Weakest Link aren't the only programmes on television which feature nastiness that is passed off as entertainment. Before the usually light-hearted Blind Date came to an end, some of the contestants used to proudly bitch about their 'holiday companions' in a way that seemed to me, to be totally unjustified. Another programme which contains this pantomime nastiness but without the humour, is Big Brother. I'll never forget last year's Big Brother 3 when I saw Adele coming out of the 'house' to loads of booing and jeering. The nervous look on that poor girl's face made me want to weep. Murderers have received less public hostility I'm sure.

Unfortunately, nastiness just isn't reserved for the television, it has contaminated most gossip magazines and newspapers, especially the Sundays - it's everywhere. It's like a disease. And this disease is bound to affect those who come into contact with it; more so, I would suspect, children whose minds are very impressionable. For instance, I was in a shop the other day when I couldn't help but overhear two schoolgirls bitching to each other about some unfortunate girl who is in the same class as them at school. Some of the things they were saying about her left me cold. And yes, there was bitching when I was in school, but never as bad as I had heard that day. Is it any wonder that bullying in schools is on the rise? The number of children who commit suicide as a result of bullying is rocketing.

We've got to stop this 'nastiness disease' before it gets out of control. If enough people lean on T.V. producers, etc, we can get it stopped. After all, they make T.V. programmes the way they think we like them. If we don't do something, then we may find ourselves not batting an eyelid when someone comes out with yet another cruel retort on programmes like the Weakest Link (that's if we haven't already).

There is already evidence to show that today's children are immune to 'shock' and 'horror' tactics that would have terrified their parents. Just watch a so-called horror movie made in the 70s and then compare it to the sort of horror movie made today. I remember being in fits of laughter when my mum told me that she found the film, 'The Blob' terrifying when it first came out in the cinema. And the sort of horror movies that used to scare me as a kid will no doubt seem laughable to today's children. Now that's really scary stuff!

Bring back nice T.V. that's what I say! Before we all become a nation of nasties.


Copyright Donna Antoinette Coleman (2003)

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